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June 30th, 2008African-Americans, Beauty Comes From Within, Posts By Wiggy WackI love the song by India Arie “I Am Not My Hair” because it covers a subject that is very important. As a young African American growing up in what you would call the “hood”, I noticed how African Americans have always placed great emphasis on their hair.
Your hair is ugly if it’s short and nappy or really curly. But your hair is beautiful if it’s long and straight or wavy. We hate what the LORD has given us. If we claim Black is Beautiful why do we continually contradict ourselves by revering the long hair, light skin, light eyes women and men among us. There is nothing wrong if you have these features, but it’s seriously wrong when we look at them as if they are blessings from the LORD.
I think this type of thinking has infected the minds of the African American for long enough. It is backwards and ignorant. I don’t need to prove I’m beautiful by perming my hair and flipping it around, because then I would be ugly. Not by perming my hair (I like to wear my hair straight sometimes), but by thinking that if my is hair straight, only then I can be beautiful.
I have struggled with the concept that Black is Beautiful for a long time. Mostly because of the influences that are around me. Every time you turn on the television the People of Color are mostly light skinned, especially the women.
Now I am not hating on light skinned people, I am a light brown complexion and my Father is very light skinned. What I am hating is the self hatred that cripples the African to this day. It is time for us as a people to move forward with the rest of the world and better ourselves.
Now I know some of you may have some thoughts you may like to share, so please feel free to do so. Leave a comment or register to the Wiggy Wack Weblog and write your own post. I am thinking about making this a weekly post about people’s problem with self image.
Peace, Wiggy Wack ♥
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June 23rd, 2008African-Americans, Posts By Wiggy WackPeace. I’ve been watching the entire “Roots” miniseries on dvd. Since I had never seen it before you can guess I had a lot of expectations for it. Will it live up to the legend that surrounds it? Will it portray slavery realistically and not sugar-coat it? Will it answer some of my questions about slavery?
Roots did live up to its legend, definitely exceeding my expectations. It portrayed slavery as to make it bearable for mass consumption. And it did answer some of my questions about slavery and furthered my knowledge in areas I already knew about.
It made me realize the strength so strong in the African ,that it took hundreds of years for white people to break us. Even now our strength as a people is unparalleled by most. Roots has helped me to look at myself differently as an African- American women. I admired the women in the series for their strength, especially Kizzy. Who was raped and impregnated by her slave master Tom Lea (Moore) but still held her head high.
I also admired the men of the Kinte family, it seemed they all had a strength that no man could ever take or whip from them. I especially liked Tom, one of Chicken George’s sons. I admired his courage as he stood up to the evil, Confederate soldier, Jimmy Brent. Tom was also a wise and dignified man. The kind of man, a women looks for in a husband.
I believe “ROOTS” is a must see, especially for the African-American youth. So the next time your shopping for dvd’s on ebay or amazon buy “ROOTS”.
Well, gotta take a hike.
Peace, Wiggy Wack ♥

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June 19th, 2008Posts By Wiggy WackThanks, for your kind and thoughtful comment for my “Complete” post, Bud! Your blog, Bud’s List, is a terrific addition to the blogging community as well!
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June 9th, 2008Posts By Wiggy WackThank you, mp for your loving comment for my “Muslim Female Tennis Players” post. I shall definitely read it over and over again whenever I need some inspiration.
Love, Wiggy Wack ♥
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June 5th, 2008Posts By Wiggy WackToday is a beautiful day. Everything is fine and sweet. No noise, just quiet. I hear birds chirping as the sun begins to rise. There is dew on the grass and a light mist in the air. It seems as if it will be like this all day.
NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!! Actually, It’s very busy around me, people doing this and that. Working, studying, standing up, sitting down, again and again. I’m indoors where there is no sun, no peace, no chirping birds!
Wiggy Wack ♥
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June 4th, 2008Islam, Posts By Wiggy Wack, SportsMuslim Female Tennis Players a Rare Species 
In some Arab countries girls can learn basic tennis skills. (Bahrain Tennis Federation) When tennis player Sania Mirza leaves her home in Hyderabad, India, she is rarely seen without her bodyguard.
Mirza is a member of the Indian Muslim community and at the age of 18 was the subject of a fatwa (Islamic religious decree), calling on her to change her tennis outfit which “leaves no room for imagination.”
Now 20, Mirza is one of a handful of professional Muslim female tennis players. That is why her story, whilst gaining much publicity, is mostly treated by the media as a personal matter, and not as part of a larger phenomenon.
The Women’s Tennis Association (WTA) Official Rule Book determines that “for tournament matches all players will be expected to dress and present themselves in a professional manner.” According to its rules, a player “shall wear appropriate and clean attire and shall not wear sweatshirts, sweat pants, t-shirts, jeans, or cut-offs during matches.”
Nothing in the rules specifically refers to the length of the garments. The word skirt is not mentioned. Yet, somehow it became accepted that a skirt had to be worn, the length of which was too short for the average Muslim woman to wear.
The WTA rules also determine that it is up to the referee to approve or disapprove of an outfit. “A player may be asked to change if the referee deems it necessary,” the Rule Books reads.
“Every year the skirt gets shorter and shorter. Why not longer?” asks Aravane Rezai, who is ranked in the WTA’s top-50.
Her parents were born in Iran and immigrated to France before she was born. Nevertheless, she considers herself a practicing Muslim and is bewildered by the WTA rules.
“I think if this rule would change and if everybody could choose what to wear, then many girls in Muslim countries would be able to play tennis,” Rezai says.
When Rezai is training, she wears long pants and long-sleeved shirts. She regards this attire as “respectful.” Several times during her short career Rezai asked to play in official tournaments with Bermuda pants, which cover the legs down to the knees.
“If Raphael Nadal can, why can’t I?” she asked. But the referees refused.
Rezai believes this rule stops many potential talents in the Muslim World from developing.
“I saw many juniors, who stopped playing tennis at the age of 14 because of the family and their religious tradition,” says the technical director of Tennis Emirates, ‘Salah Bramly.
Bramly, a former tennis player from Tunisia, arrived in Dubai in 2001 and joined the United Arab Emirates’ tennis association. One of the first things he initiated was the UAE national championship for children under the age of 14. His vision was to promote tennis in the oil-rich UAE, where football and horseback riding take the lead. To his amazement, out of 200 participants, 60 percent were girls.
Bramly understood the potential, but knew what obstacles lay ahead.
“Many people are very conservative. They do not like their girls to play sport, especially when they become young ladies,” Bramly explains.
The WTA ranking includes very few players from the Muslim world, most of whom are very low on the list. There is no UAE player in the rankings.
But this might change in the coming years, regardless of whether the WTA dress code changes or not.
Dubai, one of the richest places in the world, is moving back and forth between the Muslim traditions on the one hand, and its growing proximity to the West on the other. This situation has led some parents to encourage their daughters to continue their tennis careers, even if it means settling for shorter clothes.
Fatima Janahi, 12, is a talented tennis player, who has no intention of putting an end to her already seven-year-long career. A year ago she approached her father, ‘Abbas, and told him how she felt. His answer was simple: “It’s up to you. The door is open.”
Unlike many other parents in the Muslim world, ‘Abbas sees no problem with the skirt issue.
“If Fatima would like to wear a skirt then I’ll let her. The dress Sharapova wears is different from what we’re used to. Fatima can wear it if she wants; it’s very nice,” says ‘Abbas.
When asked what her dream is, Fatima answers with no hesitation: “I want to be a professional tennis player. If I really want to reach the top 10, then I think I can,” she says.
Headscarf on the tennis court

Aravane Rezai at the French Open. (Stephanie Morel) Despite the obvious obstacles, Rezai believes Iranian tennis players could, and would do well in international tournaments, if only they could participate. Rezai took part twice in the Muslim World ‘Olympic Games’ in Tehran. Women wearing traditional dress and headscarves participated in all kinds of sports, including tennis.
Rezai is relentlessly trying to push Muslim girls to participate in tennis and in other sports.
“I want to show that women can take part in the same activities as men,” she says.
“I want people to understand that I can play tennis even if I wear a chador (a dress which covers the entire body).”
But Rezai knows that no matter how hard she tries to promote tennis in Iran, if the WTA rules don’t change then all her efforts will be in vain.
Erhan Oral, the technical director of the Turkish Tennis Federation, agrees.
“We had a case two or three years ago during an international tournament in Ankara, when a tennis player from Iran wanted to play with a scarf and long clothes. The international supervisor did not allow this because it was against the international rules of tennis. Everyone thought that because Turkey was a Muslim country, she would get away with it, but she didn’t,” Oral says.
Turkey’s population is almost 100% Muslim. Nevertheless, its secular tradition, which goes back to the 1920s, does not place any obstacles in the way of its female tennis players. Turkey has five WTA-ranked women tennis players.
The Media Line asked the WTA to comment on the dress code issue, and the response leaves some room for optimism.
“While we are not aware of any player requests to wear non-traditional tennis attire due to religious reasons, if such a request were made, it would be reviewed by the Tour on a case-by-case basis,” says the WTA Tour vice president for communications, Andrew Walker.
Walker adds: “My best guess is that as long as the request did not interfere with play or result in an unfair distraction to the other player, it would be granted. As a matter of principle, we would do everything in our power to respect the different religious beliefs and customs of our players, while at the same time ensuring an even playing field on the court.”
Asked specifically about Rezai’s request to play with Bermuda pants, Walker says he was not familiar with the request. He adds, however, that he could not believe that a referee would “deny a bona-fide request based on personal religious reasons that doesn’t interfere with the play or the opposing player.”
The bottom line, according to Walker, is that the WTA is doing all it can to ensure a “balanced playing field, respect for players and their beliefs, and at the same time professional and proper match attire.”
Sounds promising? Maybe. Still, the rules are not about to change soon, and so the referee in each match still makes the final decision as to whether or not an outfit is “proper.”
And then there is another problem.
Even if the WTA would indeed change the dress code and allow players to wear what they want, Rezai is afraid that this would also cause problems for Muslim players, this time for those who are actually comfortable playing in skirts.
“What if other players, like Sania Mirza will not want to play in pants? Then people would ask her why she does not wear pants and it may create more problems for her,” Rezai says.
Rezai knows she has a long way to go before she achieves her goals: being number one in the world and opening the door to the tennis world for more Muslim women. But she is not discouraged.
“I feel I am not alone. So many Muslim girls in Iran want to play in different sports, not only tennis. But they cannot do this outside Iran. It is difficult to change the rules of a country like Iran, but surely the WTA can change its own rules.”
I absolutely adore the game of tennis. I have been interested in it every since I was young. It’s a sport that demands athleticism, intelligence, and especially, talent.
Actually, it is my intention to play tennis at whatever college I’ll be attending. This will be a fun and challenging experience. My only dilemma is that I’m a garbed Muslim women. Not that it bothers me, I am honored to wear a hijab! But I am pretty sure it will bother those who are unfamiliar and close-minded to it. I have no intention of wearing miniskirts on the tennis court, I’ll opt for pants and a long sleeve shirt. There should be no rule stating that a women can’t wear pants or a hijab while playing tennis. Nor should a Muslim women be denied participation in a match because she chooses to be fully covered due to her religious convictions.
So I am aware that I will have to overcome a lot of obstacles in order to change tradition and stereotypes. But all the while I know that there will be people cheering me on. I will be representing the Muslim tennis players, women and men, who want a change but have been prevented from speaking out and standing up for their beliefs.
I want to know what you guys think so please leave a comment or register to my blog and make a post. Express your feelings, thoughts and ideas. Thanx!
Peace, Wiggy Wack ♥
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